Hello, My Name Is ...

None of us probably give a second thought about introducing ourselves. In fact, there's probably very few introductions that stick out in your mind. You might remember meeting someone new, where your friendship started, etc. but likely not the exact greeting.

You probably wonder where this is going, unless you read my Facebook post over the weekend. We visited a store this weekend, and I was wandering the aisles pushing Teddy when a sales associated asked if we needed any assistance. I replied, "No thanks, we're good," and continued browsing. She then looked directly at Teddy in his adaptive stroller (think mini-wheelchair without all the bells and whistles) and asked him, "How about you? Are you good?"

Right away, I was impressed that she took the time to engage directly with Teddy, who's clearly not your typical child. I asked Teddy if he could tell her yes, and he signed "yes" in response to my verbal prompt. And then I continued browsing because I thought we were done with the interaction until I heard the sales associate say, "My name is Ashley." I looked back toward her to see her signing what she was saying aloud.

I was shocked for a moment and gathered my wits enough to say that we're not quite that advanced in our signs yet, but that we know "treat" and "thank you." She said those were important words to know and encouraged us to find her if we needed any assistance.

Her introduction will stick with me for years. I was able to reach a manager at the store to let him know how much I appreciated Ashley's interactions. Not only did she engage with Teddy, but she was able to speak his language and acknowledge his answer. 

I think sign language is undervalued as a second language. I realize that so many have their own "slang" within sign language or their own way of signing when they aren't hearing impaired but are non-verbal. For example, Teddy uses the sign for candy for "treat," and realistically a lot of signs end up with Teddy pointing to his mouth where he wants the food to go. Still, we can understand him, and with continued practice, others like Ashley will be able to communicate with him as well.