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Mayo Clinic, with a nice mask reflection to remind us that COVID is still a thing. |
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This is glycosylation. Makes perfect sense, right? |
This is our family's journey with the rare PIGN genetic disorder Multiple Congenital Anomalies-Hypotonia-Seizures Syndrome 1. When our son was diagnosed in November 2015, we were told he was the 15th documented case in the world. We've discovered more affected individuals since, but it's still an extremely rare and unknown condition since its discovery in 2011. Our hope is to create awareness of the disorder and foster a sense of community among those affected by the disorder.
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Mayo Clinic, with a nice mask reflection to remind us that COVID is still a thing. |
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This is glycosylation. Makes perfect sense, right? |
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See, running makes us happy! |
I mentioned in my previous post that we had another memorable experience during our vacation week at the land. We discovered there was a drive-in movie theater about an hour from our land. That became our memorable, in a positive way, experience. I realize in our life that I need to clarify that memorable isn't always a good thing.
Now we've attempted a family movie once before, when it was sponsored by Variety as a sensory-friendly family show. We knew we wouldn't be judged if we had to walk Teddy in and out of the theater or if he was loud or otherwise disruptive. It was an OK experience, although Dave spent the vast majority of the movie walking through the lobby with Teddy as he had no interest in staying in the theater. That's similar to other movies he's attended for school field trips. We typically see 5-10 minutes total of the movie (broken up into very small segments).
The gates for the drive-in opened at 7, and we arrived at 7:15 or so. There was already a number of vehicles there, so we claimed our parking spot. That's when Dave looked up the theater on Facebook and realized that shows start at dusk, around 9 p.m. Now, that's obvious in hindsight, but it's been a long time since I've been to a drive-in theater (like a couple decades), and Dave has never been. So we had nearly 2 hours of time to entertain Teddy before the movie even started.
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This was how Teddy enjoyed part of the wait ... and the movie. |
However, we were able to do that easily between playing in the Tahoe, literally running around the field/parking lot and taking multiple stroller rides to check out everyone else. There were, of course, a few moments I looked like a crazy person when Teddy was pushing his own chair and then abandoned it to sprint in a different direction. But, all in all, the wait was enjoyable.
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Mother Nature gave us a beautiful show before Peter Rabbit 2. |
We were very fortunate to attend during a community event night where not only was the show free, but we also got a voucher for concessions. So we had a plethora of food, which was also a good form of entertainment.
Teddy watched most of the movie from his chair while munching on popcorn. He even chose to sit on the blanket by me for about 5 minutes before he decided to move to a different spot. He spent part of the movie watching from the Tahoe, sticking his head out the top. And we spent just a bit walking in his chair while listening to Peter Rabbit 2.
This was the first time our entire family actually watched the majority of a movie together at any sort of theater event. It was the perfect way to watch a movie with Teddy, as we all enjoyed ourselves. Even though the movie ended at nearly 10:30, Teddy spent the first 10 minutes of the drive back to our land giggling and bouncing because he had such a great time. Then he fell asleep without a peep and slept until we got back at 11:30 p.m. Dave carried him inside, we gave him his final medicine and he slept through until 5:48 a.m. So, I mean, he slept in about 5 minutes for staying up so late.
It was such a good experience that Dave has already scoped out drive-in theaters near our house. There's two of them, so we'll likely try another family movie this summer near home. Dave's already joked that we'd ask our adopted daughters to join us. (And Dave's folks for the drive-in that's between our houses. The more the merrier to wrangle Teddy if needed.)
Well, it's been a couple weeks since I last posted. Aside from the chaos that comes with work (and trying to finish a PhD for David), we've been enjoying summer. We're still mostly living in our COVID bubble until the boys can get vaccinated, but we're working our way toward some normalcy.
For example, AJ attended art in the park through the rec department. Although he was one of only 3 students who wore masks because it was outdoors, he had a great time creating some masterpieces. He's looking forward to beginner archery in a few weeks. We recognize that he's been so socially isolated that he needs some interactions to remember how to conduct himself appropriately in public. (Truth be told, don't we all?) He has a play date tomorrow morning with both his best friends, and he's over the moon about that.
Our boys have managed a visit or two to their sitter's lake house. They're eagerly awaiting later this week when they get to spend the day there, boating on the pontoon, swimming and perhaps even trying the jet ski. Can you picture Teddy on one of those? The best part is that both sitters will actually be there - one on the clock and the other simply because it's her family's lake house - so there's an extra set of hands. (Have we mentioned how lucky we are with our adopted daughters, as we call them? They even signed Dave's Father's Day card.)
We spent the past week at our land. Although it's not our typical vacation of traveling to different national parks, it allows us to safely enjoy nature and still get some rest at night. Let's just say our vacation 3 years ago was the catalyst for us looking for land to enjoy nature in a way that didn't make us all cry. Don't get me wrong ... I cannot wait to try that type of vacation again next year, but our land offers us outdoors, memories and reasonable nights' sleep.
In addition to many projects while Teddy rode on the Ranger, hung out with Grandma or took tractor rides with Grandpa, we made some family memories as well. One of our family traditions each June is something called a dairy breakfast, where you literally go eat breakfast at a farm and enjoy all things Wisconsin dairy (milk, cheese and ice cream) plus pancakes and sausage. Last year, we missed that opportunity because of COVID, but this year we found a drive-through dairy breakfast that allowed us to safely enjoy our tradition. AJ thought we scored the jackpot because we got 12 ice creams for the 6 people in the vehicle!
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This was at the start of our hike, when he was extremely excited. |
We also headed to Effigy Mounds National Monument. We visited there last summer, but the visitor center was closed due to COVID. It's weird how incredibly excited I was to see actual park rangers again and go inside the visitor center. AJ completed the Junior Ranger program to earn his badge, and I assisted Teddy with his.
We attempted a family hike, where Teddy started out strong. But then he flopped to the ground and was unwilling to move. So we loaded him on my back, where he protested that mode of transportation. Eventually Dave took him back to the parking lot while AJ and I continued on. AJ and I had just finished the loop part of our hike when we discovered Dave pushing Teddy up the 450-foot switchback incline at the start of the trail. So we all got to enjoy the mounds together before tackling the accessible trail. Teddy walked much of the accessible trail, pushing his chair. That's his favorite mode to travel actually as it provides him just a bit of balance and allows him to maintain his sprint speed.
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This is the ideal way for Teddy to hike, as long as the trail has railings to keep him focused. |
Hiking with Teddy has definitely become more challenging as he's rather opinionated and not easy to move against his will. We're getting something in the upcoming weeks that should assist for moderately accessible trails. More to come on that in the near future.
All in all, it was a good week at the land with quality family time, plenty of outdoors and a few really memorable experiences. There's one more that I'll share in a future post to spread out the fun and not overwhelm with pictures.
Our boys started their summer this week with so much fun this week. Their one sitter took them to visit their other sitter. They spent the day playing at a lake, splashing and swimming in the water to beat the incredible heat wave and even boating.
I got texts of videos showing the fun they were having. My reply was, "I'm jealous. That looks way more fun than work, as long as you are in charge of Teddy and I'm just in charge of mojitos."
It's such a blessing to have not one, but two childcare providers who are an extension of our family, who choose to spend some of their downtime hanging out with our family. Extra hands are always helpful with Teddy, particularly around water. He got to hang out on a boat, which he loves, and he got to spend time with two of his favorite people. AJ is ecstatic any time he gets to go to the lake.
We're blessed. Now I just need to find a day to take off and enjoy mojitos while I watch them wrangle the boys.
That's either a song title or a movie, isn't it? It's also how I feel about Teddy. Some days he drives me crazy, and other moments I'm crazy in love with him. Just tonight, he was riding with Dave to mow the lawn, and I was push mowing at the same time. He looked at me and grinned with his mega-watt smile, and I couldn't help but smile and appreciate the moment.
Now, I realize he was grinning at the lawn mower, not me. He loves lawn mowers. But I still got to see that gigantic smile and appreciate his joy for life. That boy lives life to the fullest and lives in the moment. The good things are oh so good and rewarded with giggles, laughter and smiles that make you smile. Someone recently commented that his dimples are so big that they're visible even when he's not smiling. If he makes it to old age, he will have the best smile lines because he does that so often.
Of course, when he's upset, you know it. He feels everything in the moment and lives in that moment. There's no reasoning about the fact that supper is almost ready if he's melted onto the floor miserable because he wants to eat now. In that circumstance, the best thing to do is lay right next to him on the floor and snuggle into him. When you make that effort to connect with him, he usually can peel himself off the floor and out of that moment.
We've often said how much we wish we could know what goes on in his mind at any given moment. Teddy's great at communicating what he wants, but his actual thought processes are entirely a mystery. Just yesterday, I watched him place his notebook and pen high on a shelf that he normally doesn't set stuff on and then run into the other room. I have no idea what prompted those actions and often wonder about the little things like that.
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No wondering here. He is mesmerized by the tractor. |
This has been quite the rambling post, but it's been a long day and a long week (mostly at work, not so much at home). I'm grateful for the times Teddy takes away the stress of other things by helping me live in the moment. It's only fair that he does that since he so often is the source of stress for us.