Sunday, February 11, 2024

Diagnosis Day 2.0

We have a new diagnosis day: January 31, 2024. 

Last month we did neuropsychological testing with Teddy. It was not a pleasant experience, nor did I expect it to be. Teddy isn't fond of medical offices nor is he great at standardized testing. We requested the referral because we're struggling as a family ... and have really most of last year ... in how to best support Teddy. So we felt it was worth the challenge of the testing to hopefully unlock additional resources.

This behavior, laying on the ground after school, is one of those behaviors that challenge us.

His testing resulted in him meeting the criteria for 2 additional diagnoses: Intellectual Disability, which I already thought (incorrectly) was in his chart, and Autism Spectrum Disorder. Honestly, we were expecting an autism diagnosis, especially after our first parent meeting with the neuropsychologist. 

Still, it's something to process. It's surreal to go from an extremely rare diagnosis, so rare that 3 medical research papers were the only information available online when we got the PIGN-CDG diagnosis, to one so common. We received a laundry list of potential resources when we got the autism diagnosis, and within 4 days we had a one-year membership in a local autism resource group, a discount to attend a statewide autism conference, a full booklet of resources in our area and a paperback book to learn more about autism. It's a bit overwhelming as there's so much information and so many resources, but in a good way. 

Despite an abundance of resources, it's going to take patience and effort to get services started. An autism diagnosis is required in Wisconsin to qualify for ABA (applied behavioral analysis) therapy, which was specifically recommended as something that could highly benefit Teddy. A number of providers do not serve children as old as Teddy, so that limits our options. A lack of qualified staff means that wait lists for after-school hours are 8 months to a year. Yep, you read that right.

So Teddy is on a wait list for a local provider in Oshkosh that serves only after-school hours for Teddy's age, with the potential to start in fall but realistically next January. That provider would be extremely convenient as it's after-school hours, but it's only 8-9 hours a week. While that might seem like a lot, and it's far more than he's receiving now for therapy, I'm not sure it'll be enough to help him make the progress we want for him. 

That means he's on a second wait list for a provider in Appleton, about 30 minutes away. That provider already has done a parent assessment (a detailed 1-hour interview with me), and Teddy is scheduled in May for an in-person assessment. Their recommendation is 10-20 hours of therapy a week, leaning toward the 20 hours to accomplish the goals we discussed including toilet training. Needless to say, that's daunting, though I can see how beneficial it could be. The tentative gameplan is that he'll hang on the waitlist until summer and then start therapy 4 hours a day (9-1) 5 days a week. Then we'd hope and pray that come fall he could get slotted into afternoon hours (1-5) and set up his transitional IEP to middle school to accommodate this. I'm not as concerned about the transitional IEP as I am in getting the afternoon hours because the wait list for the 3-5 time slot is 8 months to a year right now. But we'd have to figure out afternoon hours or else he'd never be in school.

It's hard to know which is the better option, though it's easy to know which is least disruptive to our lives. But the disruption may be worth it to eliminate reduce the daily challenges. So we'll continue to pray, ponder and wait. 

And how we make any of this work, I don't know yet, even for the summer hours, because we still have to line up childcare for this summer. But I remind myself we're doing this for good reasons, and while ABA therapy is a lot, it's exactly what we hoped in terms of additional resources and ways to better support Teddy. 

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