Detroit Free Press Marathon Weekend: We Run 4

I know I've talked about I Run 4 on this blog when the boys first got matched more than two years ago, but perhaps this post will capture how much this organization means to our family, specifically the two ladies who are matched with our boys. Teddy was matched a month after his diagnosis, which was a pretty difficult period of time for us as we came to terms with the information the doctors shared. His buddy Heather was a bright spot, with each post making us smile and every care package serving as a ray of sunshine. AJ was matched with Bridget a few months later after two unsuccessful matches that were just God's way of connecting us to Bridget. She's been an incredible buddy to AJ, supporting his interests, encouraging him to work hard and keep trying and filling his bedroom (in the best possible way) with swag from the dozens of races she does.

The runners representing for each of our buddies: AJ, Luke and Teddy.

This weekend we headed to Detroit as a family. We stopped along the way at Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore on a gloomy, rainy day, but we managed to explore with a short 3/4-mile hike, enough for the boys to earn Junior Ranger badges from a fantastic ranger who offered, multiple times, for Teddy to get the free National Parks lifetime pass that he's entitled to receive. We told him that we appreciated the offer, but we're more than happy to contribute our annual fee to the National Park Service each year as our way to support them. The really cool part was that he included Teddy right along with AJ and gave him a Junior Ranger badge as well.

We finished our drive to Detroit Saturday morning and headed right to the expo center for packet pickup. There was a minor snafu with my passport, so I spent some time with the problems and solutions people to make sure I was set to run my international leg of the relay race the following day. While there, we met up with Heather and her husband Steve, who were a part of our relay team. We continued through the expo and sat down with some snacks when Bridget arrived, walked up behind AJ and surprised him. (Honestly, I think she scared the dickens out of him because she popped right next to him, and he was completely focused on the food he just got.) This was the first time we ever met Bridget, and AJ was so excited to spend time with her. He went through the expo again with Bridget and her friends from her running group, Sole Family. Teddy used that time to thoroughly explore the expo center. He rode the escalators with Dave and I, took Heather to the wine bar and tried to sneak her espresso and showed Steve every single shoe shine station. In other words, he had fun.

Later that afternoon, we met Bridget and her husband Joey, along with Heather and Steve, at a cider mill. Cider mills are apparently Michigan's version of apple orchards. This one had animals to look at, a walking path along a river and delicious cider and donuts. We explored together and just enjoyed the opportunity to get to know each other better. It was a dreary, cold, rainy day, but the time together (and still-warm apple cider donuts if you ask Dave and the boys) was worth the chilliness.

Teddy took a shine to Bridget immediately!

Sunday was our relay race, and Bridget had custom shirts made for our relay team, complete with the number for our leg on the back of the shirts. She included all our running buddies and had the CDG logo for Teddy's diagnosis, along with my buddy's awareness ribbon for Down Syndrome. Since AJ has no logo, Bridget included the Superman one because she sent AJ a Superbrother shirt earlier this year. I chuckled to myself when AJ read the back of the shirt and immediately identified that as Superbrother for him.

Custom shirts for our group, thanks to Bridget.

Since it was cold and windy, not to mention it was downtown Detroit with 15,000+ runners and roads closed for the race, Dave stayed back with the boys. They went shopping and enjoyed the hotel's water park while we did the marathon relay. Bridget kicked us off, running over the bridge into Canada, where she handed off to me. I ran underwater through the tunnel back to the United States, which was extremely cool and just an awesome experience. I spent a portion of my time running thinking of my grandfather, whose memorial service was that day. As much as I felt like I should be there instead, my mom was understanding and supportive of us heading to the race still. I handed off to Steve, who ran the rest of the race, along with Heather, who was our official runner for the last two legs.

All smiles in the warm expo center after our marathon relay, team I Run 4.

Once all the other Sole Family folks got done running, we headed out to meet Dave and the boys for a late lunch. (Oddly enough, these full marathons take about twice as long as the half marathons I usually do.) We ended up at a tiny IHOP, but that didn't matter. It actually worked out perfectly that AJ got a booth to himself with Bridget for 1:1 conversation and attention. Several of Bridget's friends from Sole Family joined us, which was great since I already felt as though I knew them from all her posts and their welcoming us with open arms into their group throughout the race.

Best of buds, in person finally!

We had to say our goodbyes, until next time, to Bridget when we left the restaurant. Since Heather lives only a few miles from where we stayed (which made it convenient for them to graciously get me to the start of the race since I had no idea where I was going), we headed to their house for a little bit longer to visit. Teddy loved meeting their three dogs, cat and bunny, and AJ thought their shuffleboard table was as cool as their Harry Potter LEGOs. I'm pretty sure AJ knows a remarkable amount about Harry Potter from the 50 million questions he asked Steve.

Heather was a good sport with Teddy's odd requests, like playing in her bed together.

All in all, it was just incredible to spend the weekend with these two people, and their family and friends, who provide so much happiness, joy and support for our family. My heart is filled with gratitude.