Relaxing Respite

Last week we had the opportunity to spend a few quality days with AJ. Between assistance from grandparents and our "adopted daughter" Sigrid, we were able to arrange coverage for Teddy. We headed north to the upper peninsula of Michigan to one of our favorite places: Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore. 

We've visited Pictured Rocks nearly every year since 2009. We've done the boat cruise to see the beautiful lakeshore from Lake Superior. We've hiked to a frozen waterfall in winter. We've camped in the traditional campgrounds. We've hiked 45 miles from one end of the National Lakeshore to the other end. It's absolutely beautiful and yet unpredictable. The weather can be amazing or it can be brutal. The water is usually freezing, but occasionally it's warm enough to truly enjoy. The stable flies can be merciless. The waves can be non-existent or they can be 10 feet high. 

Despite it's unpredictability, Pictured Rocks has grown increasingly popular in the past 5 to 10 years. We first discovered it when it was relatively peaceful, and now visitation has increased tremendously similar to other national park sites. In our words, it's gotten far more "people-ly," but we're still able to find our peace there.

This was our third year hiking and backcountry camping. That means we take everything we need for a couple days in our backpacks. We have done with when AJ was 6, 7 and now 9. He's quite the trooper for the 3.5-mile hike in to camp, especially with the promise of swimming and playing there. This year was the best yet, likely due to his age.

Still smiling on the hike out, although AJ was a bit weary.

We had perfect weather, water and bugs. We planned to bring in our stand-up paddleboard. All told, that meant an extra 12 miles of hiking (6 of those carrying the paddleboard). Although I can't say we'll do it every time, it was absolutely worth it. We were able to explore further along the coastline safely (given that AJ and I aren't strong enough swimmers otherwise). I am not built for cold water, so the paddleboard allowed her to play in the water with the boys. We were able to see the shipwreck by finding it with paddleboard. 

This was the cave that "burped" and tried to eat them when the waves kicked up.

As AJ collapsed into the water for the first time, he exclaimed, "This is everything I could dream of!" We tend to agree. 

As much as we wish we could bring Teddy to our favorite camping place again, it's just not feasible with his walking ability and the trails. We spent time contemplating how we might be able to get him in for a day trip. Honestly our best bet is to rend a pontoon boat, but then we need someone who's a boater to chauffer us. Any scenario that involves us hiking in is going to result in being exhausted chasing Teddy while there after the way in and way out.

And the reality is that both AJ and us need time away from Teddy. We love Teddy dearly, but it's a lot to be his brother and parents. It's a lot of patience. It's a lot of diligence. It's a lot of refereeing. It's a lot of pushing and shoving. It's a lot of guessing games. There's reasons that AJ likes the move Wonder. It reminds him of our life, probably including the line about life revolving around "the son." 

These few days allow us to enjoy each other. We can all have a bit of space, a bit of personal time and plenty of nature. We had a fantastic time and are already looking forward to next year.

Happy hikers enjoying Grand Portal.