Best Brother

We've often said that AJ is already a better person than we will ever be, simply because he's growing up with a brother with a significant genetic disorder. Teddy's CDG affects every aspect of life for our family, adjusting our version of normal.

AJ has spent 5 years of his life with a brother who has never spoken a word to him. Yet he's learned to understand Teddy's wants and needs, even telling us at a young age that Teddy wanted a drink because he saw Teddy staring at his own cup as he drank. He may not understand everything Teddy tries to communicate, but he's a pretty capable translator.

Not only that, but he interacts with Teddy just like anyone would with their little brother. He talks to him, plays with him and headbutts him more than I'd like to admit. He treats Teddy like a normal human being who needs a bit of extra assistance with things. It's been fantastic to see the times he interacts with others who may have a disability in the same way because it's simply how life is ... for AJ at least.

If you need proof that AJ is an amazing brother, then check out the thank you he wrote Teddy at school last month. I'll translate below in case you're not skilled in the art of reading first grade writing ... of a future engineer.

This is tucked away in Teddy's memory box.

Dear Teddy,

Thank you for being the best brother I've had. You will allwas (always) be my favorit (favorite) brothr (brother) I allwasa (always) had.

Sincerely,
AJ, yoru (your) best brothr (brother)