Halloween Hijinks

OK, it's almost a month after Halloween, so I'm playing catch up. But Teddy had 2 monumental things happen for Halloween that I want to share. 

I'll preface this with Halloween is a favorite for Teddy because he loves visiting all the people. In the past, he's viewed this as an acceptable form of breaking and entering, an invitation to explore every open garage door and a chance to go to everyone's house. A few years ago he realized he was holding a bucket of candy, and he loved it even more!

Through the years, there have been a few costumes that have freaked him out, especially AJ's ninja/shadow suit. But in the last 3 years, that handful of costumes has increased, in addition to some decorations freaking him out. It seems like costumes wig him out (no pun intended) because his brain can't reconcile who he knows with what he sees. It's fine if a costume is very similar to regular clothing, but any wigs or blow-up costumes instantly put him on edge. 

This costume challenge was apparent at our neighborhood Halloween party, when Teddy was so freaked out he could barely make it inside the garage and couldn't wait to leave. So Dave hung out with him at home because he couldn't handle it (Teddy, not Dave). That made me a bit nervous for the big plans Teddy had for Halloween, but he did really well with both.

The first was the school Halloween dance. There are several school dances each year, and AJ has attended all of them to work at them for student council. Teddy had attended none, even though he loves people, music, dancing and food ... all the thing the dance includes. So we had asked what it would take for Teddy to participate in the dance this year, as he'd need support and supervision. His team worked it out, so he was able to attend the dance and did great! He only needed a short sensory break to reset, and he was back in the chaos and loving it! We're excited for other dances, especially as they should be easier without any costumes involved.

Trick-or-treating with his bestie! 

The other was Teddy went trick-or-treating with his best friend. While he's been trick-or-treating with AJ's friend group, who certainly included him, and with our family friends, this was his first time with a friend of his own. The two of them had a great time, despite Teddy being freaked out a bit by his friend's costume. His friend was great about encouraging Teddy and asking for candy for him at the few houses that were way too scary for Ted to venture to the door. It was really a neat experience, and it continues my love of Halloween for Teddy!